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It’s not rare nowadays to find a beautiful, smart and hot woman single. For some reason society has stereotyped these kind of women as ‘undatable,’ ‘not marriage material,’ or ‘not the commitment type.’
Even with millions of men all over the world, chances are high that you’ll still find a beautiful woman that is lonely. Some of these girls spend years waiting for ‘Mr. right’ but in vain.
On the other had, the rest of us strongly believe that such women shouldn’t have trouble getting men to ask them out, but unfortunately, they do!
Here are 8 simple reasons why the beautiful, perfect girls are still lonely and single.
They have everything they need and know their worth. They don’t need to rely on a man for anything. At least not any kind of man!
A story published in The Question perfectly describes how such girls choose their partners:
My friend is 25. She is a very nice girl, smart and well educated, a good dresser with a great job. She loves spending time with her friends in bars and at concerts. Guys really like her, but nonetheless she is still single. Why? Because she has a cool head, and she knows exactly who should be with her. She’d never start a new relationship ”Just so I’m not alone“ or “Just to give it a try.” That’s why the majority of guys are labeled ”Dismissed” either from the first sight or right after the first date.
Time is money!
And a smart girl knows this. She will not sit around and waste her time and energy on a guy that is not marriage material to her. She would rather remain single until the right man for her comes for her.
They dont see the point of going for countless meaningless dates with people they possibly don’t see a future with.
Unfortunately, smart girls suffer from made-up complexes. A curvy gal can easily wear leopard print leggings and feel good about herself, whilst a tall girl with slender legs won’t even consider wearing a miniskirt. Why? This is all because they gave self-esteem issues.
“Personally, I want a woman who can take care of me and take care of things around the house. I don’t want anybody who is going to be looking for attention every time we go out,” says one of the male respondents on the Internet. Actually, many men agreed with him.
Some beautiful are just too desperate to get hooked, which is a total turn off for most guys. Even on first dates, all they talk about is their imaginary wedding, honeymoon, etc .
This is a clear indicator that they are trying too hard and are too focused on getting married that it scares men away!
Beautiful women are often single because men are intimidated by them. Even a nice guy will fear to approach them in fear that he’ll be turned down! Here’s an illustrative story:
Six years after my graduation I was introduced to a married man. We became friends, but I always felt this special bond between us. One day he confessed that he and I studied at the same university, and he really liked me back then. When I asked him why he hadn’t done anything about it, he said, “You looked so inaccessible, the most beautiful girl in the whole university. I knew you turned down even the most popular guys, so how could I compete with them? I thought you wouldn’t even look at me.”
Most beautiful women fear commitment to just anyone. They have a belief that once they see the ‘right’ one, they’ll know. But unfortunately, this is not how things work. You can never know how good someone is without giving them a chance and benefit of a doubt first.
My husband’s ex was such a “Miss Perfect.“ She was pretty and smart, and her zest for life was so inspiring. I heard him say that it wasn’t just a crush, but he was crazy about her. It was killing me. I tortured myself with one single question: ”What does he see in me?“
Right before our wedding, I decided to ask him. He shrugged. “It was complicated because she was too perfect,” he said. ”Take us, for example, okay? We wake up early, but if we want we can get out of our bed in the evening or leave the dirty plates right beside our bed if we want to. We just know nothing terrible will happen to us if we do. But she was crazy about having everything done perfectly. You know, the perfectionist syndrome. So I said, “No, thank you!” “