Society has set up some high standards and laws that every relationship must follow, but sometimes, some of these laws do not apply, they can be broken.
Take a look at these 10 love laws that every couple confronts.
10. Trust is extremely fragile.
Trust is the foundation for a relationship. It might seem solid, but this is an outright deceptive and dangerous feeling because the trust between spouses can be broken very quickly and easily.
9. Sometimes you’ll be bored together.
Fairy tale stories convince us that a couple in love should be together 24/7, doing everything together. But in reality, this is false. There are times when a night out with your girls is far better than spending an evening with your spouse. And this doesn’t mean, you love your partner any less, sometimes you both just need your own space or a little time away from one another.
8. You won’t always be on the same side.
They say, great minds think alike. But when it comes to relationships, you and your spouse are bound to disagree one way or another. Trust me! Despite the fact that you make all important decisions together, a time will come when you are both on opposing sides. When that time comes, its vital that you don’t take things too seriously or get angry, find a way to meet each other half way.
7. Marriage and children are not a decision — they are a challenge.
If you thought marriage or having children will magically take away all the tension and problems in your relation, you are wrong! Embarking on a journey of marriage and parenthood is not an easy ride, it requires a lot of strength, patience, love and understanding. It’s tough. But it’s not impossible to deal with, with the right attitude, you can be able to juggle it all.
6. You won’t be attracted to each other forever.
Passion in a relationship is mostly at its peak in the beginning. With time, you start to notice that the relationship is not as exciting as before. This does not mean you are falling out of love with your spouse. It’s perfectly normal. The most import thing is not to get depressed over it, find different ways in which you can revamp your love life.
5. You will feel lonely sometimes.
Yes! It’s possible to feel lonely when in a relationship, especially when you’re married. There are times when you feel like the world is closing in on you and nobody cares about you or understands you.
4. You will have strange thoughts.
Once you get married or are in a serious committed relationship, all kinds of crazy thoughts will run through your mind whenever you’re alone. Such as; “Should I get divorced?“ ”Could I have been happier with someone else?”It doesn’t matter if you’re happily married or not. Everyone gets these kind of thoughts.
3. You will lose connection from time to time.
Sometimes you feel like you, your destiny, and your heart are all connected to the person you love. And sometimes this connection seems to disappear. It’s normal. Most likely, you are just very tired.
2. You will hurt each other.
The rest of the world can hurt you a million times, and you just ignore them. But if your spouse hurts you, you fee it, it’s like a sharp knife cutting through your soul! For some reason you take every single word they say and what they do to heart. This is normal, and it’s because you love them dearly that you feel that way. What’s important is how you deal with any conflicts that arise in your relationship. And the earlier, the better. You don’t want to hold onto a grudge for so long.
1. Love can’t survive on its own.
“Love” is not a verb. It’s an action! Not just a feeling either. You have to put in effort in your relationship. And this should not be one sided, you have to do it together with your partner. Otherwise, if only one of you is putting in all the work and struggling alone to make things work out then that’s a recipe for disaster.
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